[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/nic-ho-nebavi-porad-jen-hraje-na-pocitaci\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/nic-ho-nebavi-porad-jen-hraje-na-pocitaci\/","headline":"Nic ho nebav\u00ed, po\u0159\u00e1d jen hraje na po\u010d\u00edta\u010di","name":"Nic ho nebav\u00ed, po\u0159\u00e1d jen hraje na po\u010d\u00edta\u010di","description":"Tuto v\u011btu pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed skoro v\u0161ichni rodi\u010de puber\u0165\u00e1k\u016f, jen\u017ee m\u00e1lokomu se s\u00a0t\u00edm poda\u0159\u00ed n\u011bco ud\u011blat. \u010casto se st\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee tyto spory kaz\u00ed vztahy v\u00a0rodin\u011b, a v\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdch","datePublished":"2021-09-30","dateModified":"2023-05-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d2f205e1507a0401c7d467d32c87ccece0f63a45b81075bb691dbe8d4c823787?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d2f205e1507a0401c7d467d32c87ccece0f63a45b81075bb691dbe8d4c823787?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ficaj.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/d%C4%9Bti_5.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/d%C4%9Bti_5.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/nic-ho-nebavi-porad-jen-hraje-na-pocitaci\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":568,"articleBody":"Tuto v\u011btu pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed skoro v\u0161ichni rodi\u010de puber\u0165\u00e1k\u016f, jen\u017ee m\u00e1lokomu se s\u00a0t\u00edm poda\u0159\u00ed n\u011bco ud\u011blat. \u010casto se st\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee tyto spory kaz\u00ed vztahy v\u00a0rodin\u011b, a v\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech krom\u011b ur\u00e1\u017eek pak za\u010dnou l\u00e9tat i facky. V\u00a0tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku se m\u016f\u017eete do\u010d\u00edst n\u011bkolik tip\u016f, jak va\u0161eho puber\u0165\u00e1ka odtrhnout o po\u010d\u00edta\u010de a mo\u017en\u00e1 ho i p\u0159im\u011bt k\u00a0tomu, aby se v\u00edce v\u011bnoval \u0161kole.P\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstupMo\u017en\u00e1 se V\u00e1m ob\u010das povede va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti po\u010d\u00edta\u010d zak\u00e1zat, zabavit mobil, nebo ho jinak potrestat, dokud si nezlep\u0161\u00ed zn\u00e1mky. Tak\u00e9 t\u00edm \u010dasto dos\u00e1hnete sv\u00e9ho, proto\u017ee za chv\u00edli va\u0161e d\u00edtko za\u010dne nosit dom\u016f m\u00edsto \u010dty\u0159ek dvojky, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 s\u00a0V\u00e1ni p\u0159estane mluvit a bude na v\u00e1s na\u0161tvan\u00e9. Jakmile mu po\u010d\u00edta\u010d zase povol\u00edte, v\u0161e se vr\u00e1t\u00ed zp\u011bt.N\u011bkdy je lep\u0161\u00ed formu p\u0159\u00edkaz\u016f a z\u00e1kaz\u016f vym\u011bnit za p\u00e1r ot\u00e1zek. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b chce a pot\u0159ebuje pochopen\u00ed a respekt. Zkusili jste se va\u0161\u00ed ratolesti n\u011bkdy zeptat, o \u010dem ta hra vlastn\u011b je? Mo\u017en\u00e1 jen to, \u017ee si ho poslechnete, mu uk\u00e1\u017ee, \u017ee o n\u011bj m\u00e1te opravdu z\u00e1jem a nechcete mu v\u0161echno jen zakazovat. Zkuste ho pochopit.MotivaceAbychom n\u011bco d\u011blali dobrovoln\u011b a r\u00e1di, pot\u0159ebujeme k\u00a0tomu motivaci. Tak to m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eeme fungovat pomoc\u00ed odm\u011bn a trest\u016f, je to velmi jednoduch\u00e9. Ud\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 to, bude\u0161 moct hodinu hr\u00e1t, neud\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 to, nebude nic, a je\u0161t\u011b p\u016fjde\u0161 ven\u010dit psa. T\u00edmto p\u0159\u00edstupem si ale p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a p\u0159irozen\u00fd respekt nez\u00edsk\u00e1te. D\u011btem je pot\u0159eba se v\u011bnovat a hledat s\u00a0nimi d\u016fvody, pro\u010d by n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci m\u011bly nebo nem\u011bly d\u011blat. Pokud u\u017e jim n\u011bco zakazujeme, mus\u00edme jim v\u017edycky \u0159\u00edct pro\u010d. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to nepochop\u00ed, a p\u0159esto z\u00e1kaz poru\u0161\u00ed. Ob\u010das lep\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e je potrestat, je nechat je n\u00e9st d\u016fsledky. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b je pot\u0159eba jim pomoct, ale zaru\u010den\u011b si to l\u00e9pe zapamatuj\u00ed.Kr\u00e1sn\u00fd je p\u0159\u00edklad, kdy si d\u011bti hraj\u00ed s\u00a0bal\u00f3nem p\u0159ed domem vedle z\u00e1honku pan\u00ed sousedky. \u0158eknete d\u011btem, a\u0165 si jdou hr\u00e1t kousek vedle. D\u011bti neposlechnou a za chv\u00edli u\u017e se bal\u00f3n v\u00e1l\u00ed mezi soused\u010din\u00fdmi tulip\u00e1ny. V\u00a0tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b je mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e na d\u00edt\u011b za\u010d\u00edt k\u0159i\u010det, j\u00edt spole\u010dn\u011b s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem za sousedkou a omluvit se, pop\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nab\u00eddnout n\u00e1hradu.Stejn\u011b tak to je i s\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010dem a \u0161kolou. Pokuste se d\u00edt\u011bti vysv\u011btlit, pro\u010d je pot\u0159eba m\u00edt dobr\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky a do \u0161koly se p\u0159ipravovat. Pov\u00eddejte si s\u00a0n\u00edm a nab\u00eddn\u011bte mu pomoc. Zeptejte se ho, \u010d\u00edm by cht\u011bl b\u00fdt, co ho bav\u00ed a zkuste spole\u010dn\u011b vymyslet, co je pot\u0159eba k\u00a0tomu, aby toho \u0161lo dos\u00e1hnout. D\u011blejte kompromisy, a hlavn\u011b spolu komunikujte.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nic ho nebav\u00ed, po\u0159\u00e1d jen hraje na po\u010d\u00edta\u010di","item":"https:\/\/www.ficaj.cz\/nic-ho-nebavi-porad-jen-hraje-na-pocitaci\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]